Okay, we all know what to do… in theory. At the same time, we have all experienced that boring, pathetic orgasm when masturbating, and it is nothing impressive.
The theory is great, but what matters is the practical results, so here are my tips on how to experience a rocking, legs-shaking orgasm every time you touch yourself! My tips will give you a practical view on the theory you surely know!
- Your own erotica
My first tip is something that you probably are trying to do but do not have any idea how to. Set your own space of eroticism. I am quite sure you are not thinking of candles and a hot bath. I do not say that the atmosphere is not essential- it is. However, sexuality is a state of mind. Try to figure out what is your mental turn on- pornography or fantasies. Of course, pornography is the easiest way, but fantasy is your most profound key to pleasure.
Stimulating your mind with your own desires is much more effective as you create the situation, the participants, the room around you, the vibe of the intercourse. Is it a rough quickie or a tender moment of lovers? You choose. In this sense, porn is a bit restrictive, but if it works for you, then you may want to check some videos here. There is a spoon for every mouth! - Do not rush things
Masturbation is like a good flirt. You approach the one night stand slowly and enjoy every drink on the bar with that guy. It is absolutely the same when playing with yourself. You start experiencing your sensitivity, go through every single curve with a light touch creating your own reality in your mind, slowly approaching a climax—the more time you spend seducing your brain, the more rocking the orgasm. Do not rush and even tease yourself! When a step away from it, just stop for a second. I know it sounds weird, but trust me on that. You will thank me later! - We all have a type
You probably know that there are different types of orgasms. The clitoral orgasm is the easiest one, insisting on less effort and less time. The vaginal wants much more time and stimulation. Of course, anal is the naughtiest one and needs the most dedication to reach.
We might enjoy them separately, but what makes the greatest fun is the combo of at least two types. You may combine them the way you would like depending on your mood. What I make most pleasure on my own is vaginal plus anal or vaginal plus clitoral orgasm. These are almost effortless and, to be honest, very productive. Find your type and satisfy your deepest desires without the need of a partner! - Yoga is unnecessary
You know all those positions when having sex that insists a very good training and years of yoga practice? Yeah… We do not need this here. You just need to find your comfortable position. For the clitoral plus vaginal combo, I am usually laid on my back and fully relaxed. For the other combination, I would usually lay on my tummy and my butt a little higher-one hand under the stomach, the other pleasuring my anal. It is like a face-to-bed-doggie-style but on your own. It sounds like this position is way too sophisticated, but it is pretty easy to do! - Mirror, mirror, on the wall…
Okay, this might sound crazy to you, girl, BUT full-length mirrors are very useful for pleasure purposes other than enjoying the perfect outfit before going out!
Be creative and find a way to see your whole body in the mirror while masturbating. Get a huge bottle of body oil and splash it all over your skin. Tenderly go through every inch of it with your hands or slap yourself, pinch your nipples, tickle your tights! Do whatever turns you on! This exercise will teach you to love your body and seduce yourself with the vision of it. An enormous bonus of this practice is that your self-esteem goes from zero to one hundred in one orgasm time!
Now is the right moment to stop reading and do some practical work! I hope my tips will be useful for you as they are my super key to the rocking orgasm! Be patient and passionate!
